If you've ever lost a loved one you know how painful it is to cope with their death, and your loss.
"I Want To Communicate With My Deceased Ones / Friend/Partner/Parent" is a common request for information on my website.
Firstly, if this is your query right now, I am very sorry for your loss and I feel and understand your pain. I'd like to try to explain why, in my experience, and from my spiritual point of view, your deceased loved ones may not be in contact for a while, and also to try to bring you some comfort.
I tend to find that deceased loved ones won't appear or communicate anytime soon after their passing.
Some say that it takes too much of their energy to come through, even to an experienced medium - I'm not sure that I hold with this as, on a rare occasion, I have sensed a very recently deceased spirit coming through to me within hours.
The difference here is that I could handle their presence emotionally. The people closest to them would not have been either, able to handle it emotionally or perhaps actually been capable of sensing their presence because of the turmoil they were in.
Some say they don't come through that quickly because they have 'business' or a 'life review' to go through first. This doesn't make that much sense to me but depends entirely on your own belief system. You may well have a different philosophy to me and be able to relate to this and can understand that they need some time on the other side first before re-visiting.
Personally I believe the reason that the spirits of recently deceased loved ones stay away, or at least aren't obvious in the early months of their passing is not about them. It's about us.
It's for us, for our own well-being and for our mental and emotional health.
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